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✨ Asking “How…?” vs submitting ✨

By Lian Brook-Tyler

I notice my life and therefore my writing follows themes… at the moment, the theme has been a lot of our students asking “How” questions.

This is always a thing, it’s just understandably more of a thing right now as I’m guiding women down the blind descent into the dark womb of the Feminine. Which is scary af – and fear tends to drive up the Hows (also the “Yes but…”s but this is about the Hows.)

And honestly, I may well have been doing the same with my teachers and guides lately – because as above, so below – just more subtly, because I KNOW it’s not about the How, and therefore it can be trickier to spot when I’m doing it.

The mind will want answers, especially brilliant minds (hello me and my people).

Shadow will want answers, especially Shadow that’s focused on control (also me, and many of my people).

The heart knows the answers, if we’re willing to stop stopping at How, honour our deep desires and submit to our soul’s truth.

The other thing to know is that it’s always an energetic move that’s required… Rather than waiting, waiting, waiting… for answers, for it to be easy, for someone else to change, for circumstances to be perfect… it’s about submitting to the energetic we’re being called to.

An ‘energetic’?

Yes it’s *all* about the energy.

Side note: I notice my rebellion to my cosmic, cannabis-and-magic-mushroom-haze hippy “It’s all about the energy, man.” upbringing isn’t working out too well these days. My father would be so proud.

So energy… Does that sound delusional, impractical or intangible?

Yes, it probably does to many people.

And yet, it’s how I go about creating the beautiful, magical, soul-deep life I desire, and so joyously create it too. The same will be true of almost any other powerful magician or creator whose work or life you admire or envy.

This is why copying how I write or speak or they write or speak won’t work – however masterful a forger you are – because it’s all about the energy.

Folk can tell even when they can’t tell you what they can tell; truth be told, YOU can tell even when you can’t tell what you can tell.

So, the choice is to stick at the How or submit.

I double dare you to ask how.
🌹✨♥️

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Here I am, reunited with my tree. ♥️

By Lian Brook-Tyler

With two leg injuries in the space of a month, I’ve only been able to visit it once in all that time. That’s the longest it’s been in many years.

I laughed and cried all my way here, I lay offerings at its feet, I hugged it, I kissed it, I prayed, I whispered words of gratitude, I covered it with tears and I told it how much I love it.

As blessed as I am with wonderful teachers, allies and guides, physical and non-physical, there’s no replacing this tree as my touchstone, inspiration and solace on this never-ending, often painful, always beautiful, devotional path of the soul.

My connection to the wild might seem strange or disingenuous to some of you, seeing me dressed up and made-up as I usually am, that’s understandable if you don’t know my roots and my bones.

The Wild Woman was my first initiation into the Feminine, to be honest, I don’t think I would have allowed Her in any other way… given my relationship to the Feminine was that She was weak, needy and helpless – and I’d spent a lifetime trying to be anything other than that.

But the wild? I could roll with that… that was the familiar ground of the hippy child running naked on a beach in Ibiza or supping from mountain springs in the Pyrenees.

And this tree was my portal back to the wild, into the Wild Woman, to the Feminine, and to everything that’s happened since.

So I laugh, cry, love and pray here. This is where I learned to do those things from the depths of my soul.

This is where I learned to be.

I am here.

Here I am.

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GODDESS IN MY BED 🖤 (Or why I lie in)

By Lian Brook-Tyler

She whispers from the sheets,

her voice an inner smile –

Stay in sweet surrender

and I’ll make it worth your while.

I’ll ply you with plans and,

visions of the universe.

Your power can be endless

if you‘ll thwart domesticity’s curse.

Sup fresh from this wild spring,

no need to walk for dusty miles.

You may get drunk on divinity

If you’ll just abide a while.

Words: Li Brook-Tyler

Art: Brooklyn Dreams by Frank Frazetta

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🖤 WHY WE NEVER FEEL READY 🤍

By Lian Brook-Tyler

It’s a myth that one day we’ll feel powerful enough, courageous enough, resourced enough, healed enough, supported enough, protected enough, enough enough to feel ready to be the fullness of who we came here to be without any pain, fear or risk.

The truth is we’ll never feel ready if that’s what we’re waiting for… there will always be detractors, losses, and prices to pay.

The question is… will you choose to allow your soul to live through you fully anyway?

Will you submit to Divine Will, to your deepest desires… without the need for approval, security or control?

The truth is… that’s a choice available to you now… and one you’re ready to make if you decide to.

And when you do, all the support, guidance and love you need will rush to meet you.

“This is the shamanic dance in the waterfall. This is how magic is done. By hurling yourself into the abyss and discovering it’s a feather bed.” Terence McKenna

The abyss will always be an abyss, therefore it will always feel scary… Will you choose to let go and fall anyway?
🖤👑🤍

Art: Julie Bell 🙌

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LIFE ISN’T FAIR ✨

By Lian Brook-Tyler

The topic of fairness is showing up a lot in the Wild Medicine circle and with 1:1 clients… these are powerful men and women who came here with big soul missions, constricting, judging and repressing themselves in the name of fairness.

But much as we might want life to be fair, it isn’t.

(And I say this as an autistic Libran who spent most of her life rigidly *obsessed* with trying to make things fair – if anyone has resisted and stress-tested this truth, it’s me).

Look at nature… is it fair?

With all of nature’s wondrous diversity, how would you even begin to measure fairness between the sun and the badger, the emerald and the oak, or even between two of the same species… two wolves, for example? One is stronger, one is more beautiful, one is fertile, the other is not.

The truth is, life is not fair and when we try to keep ourselves (or others) small and dimmed to attempt to make it so we’re just arguing with reality.

You might have more energy, less money, more support, less trauma, more intelligence, less power, more connection to spirit, less empathy… whatever your unique combination of all the possible ways a human can be, you are a necessary and perfect part of the whole.

The more we shine unashamedly big and bright, just as the sun, the badger, the emerald, the oak, and the wolves, the more the world can benefit from the unique gift we came here to be.

And paradoxically, the more fair life feels.

Art: Lucy Campbell

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