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Embodying the Feminine…

By Lian Brook-Tyler

For most of my life I believed that the Feminine was weak, spoilt, illogical, manipulative, selfish, inconvenient, and did I say weak?

But the more I heal and integrate my relationship to the Feminine, the more I see who I really am and where my true power lies.

Turns out it’s embodying the Feminine… and She is soft, open, fluid, sensual, receptive, wise, creative, mysterious, abundant, magnetic, changeable, emotional… and powerful beyond measure.

If that’s weak then I’ll take it in every colour.

I look back at this precious photo… me with my beloved sister and mother… and breathe in all the love that was present in that moment in a way I just couldn’t have done then.

I’m sorry, please forgive me, I thank you, I love you.

#tbt #throwbackthursday #theheroinesjourney #mothersanddaughters #divinefeminine #hooponopono #wakingthewild

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Only one reason…

By Lian Brook-Tyler

It’s taken a very long time to love this woman: how she moves, how she thinks, how she speaks, how she feels, how she creates, and finally… how she looks.

There’s a bazillion different reasons *not* to love ourselves – Fear can make every one of them compelling, convincing and reasonable.

And there’s one reason to learn (though it’s really an unlearning of falsehoods) to love ourselves… it’s the only way to live freely and fully as the unique gift we came here to be.

#selflove #radicalapproval #ilovemyself #soulpath #soulwork #wakingthewild #loveisthelaw #bethegift

Who are you becoming?

By Lian Brook-Tyler

“The privilege of a lifetime is to become who you truly are.” – Carl Gustav Jung

For me, that privilege means becoming a vessel for the Divine Feminine, Love, Magic and Beauty to pour through into the world… even and especially when it seems unwelcome, idealistic, fantastical, impractical and as provocative as Hell (and Heaven).

Objectify me, mock me, admire me, envy me, hate me, love me… it’s *all* welcome. The invitation is to use it as Material in service of your Liberation.

So how about you?

Who are you becoming?

What does it mean to slow down?

By Sara J. Sanderson

The majority of us in this crazy modern world are living as fragments of ourselves. Slaves to constant doing and busyness in the name of progress, productivity, and ideas of success.

What if the fast paced modern world is a collective shadow of hiding our power and full expression?

Are we scared to see who we truly are?

Have you noticed how we even mock our innate ability of insight and the knowing beyond intellect, with terms like woo woo or making apologies for sounding weird (or maybe that’s just me?)

There can be a visceral pain in slowing down and facing our wounds. Stories of “I don’t have time”, “I must do more now” can easily mask the avoidance to feeling all that’s in shadow.

However noisy it gets and however caught up in the conditioned demands of the world you get. Your reflection is always here waiting to be seen and expressed.

The invitation is to slow down and face all of who you are. To reclaim your primal power and actualise your deepest gifts.

All of you is welcome here!

To the holders…

By Lian Brook-Tyler

Holders need holding too…

At the end of the session with my coach today I said…

“We could have just spoken about custard for an hour and it would have been exactly what I needed.”

After a particularly intense day of holding others, I felt an unusually strong need to be held too.

“Unusually” in that I’m a born holder. It’s natural for me to be the leader, coach, teacher, parent, guide, and friend who offers the shoulder to cry on. I can hold a *lot* and I willingly do so.

And sometimes, after a day (week, month, year) of holding people’s anger, sadness, fear and hopelessness, I need holding too.

Many of the people I hold are holders too, they’re often life’s “designated responsible one”, there’s no-one in their life who can hold them so they come to me to be held.

I celebrate them in knowing what they need and allowing themselves to receive that.

And I celebrate myself in knowing when it’s time to take my own medicine… allowing myself to be held too.

(It wasn’t just about custard ).

Are you a holder? Who holds you?

Art: Taryn Knight

#sovereignty #alliswelcome #love #beingheld #holder #leader